总舍不得花钱怎么办？

　　

　　

　　总舍不得花钱怎么办？

　　挣钱不容易，总是舍不得花钱，这很正常，但也是不对的。

　　为什么要挣钱呢？人活着就要吃饭、穿衣，吃饭、穿衣就要花钱，除非你自己能生产出饭和衣服。花钱就要先去挣来钱。不然就可能饿死、冻死。现在吃、穿已经是小意思了，但你要过上好生活就要有钱，就要去挣钱。

　　天上不会掉馅饼，想挣钱就要按时去上班、要吃苦受累、付出体力、脑力劳动，也只有这样才能拿到钱。人的能力不同，有的人可能挣得多、挣得容易，有的人可能挣得少、挣得不容易。

　　挣钱来干什么呢？当然是改善生活，挣钱特别不容易的人就会心疼，不舍得花钱，我觉得这是很正常的事情，一粥一饭当思来之不易，一丝一缕恒念物力维艰。

　　人的生命是有限的，挣钱来总是不舍得花是不行的，要改变思想观念，鼓励自己适当地进行消费。这人生和睡觉是一样的，眼一睁一闭这一天就过去了，眼一闭不睁这辈子就过去了。财富生不带来死不带走，既不要和小沈阳说的那样:人生最痛苦的事是人死了钱没花了。也不要和赵本山说的那样:人生更痛苦的是，人活着，钱没了。

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　　我现在就属于舍不得花钱的那种。哈哈！

　　因为每个月的房贷，还有两个孩子未来的费用，目前我们基本就不乱花钱，每个月的结余基本都存起来，就为了孩子以后的教育。自己很少买新衣服，也不追求名牌，金银首饰我也不是很向往。但是对孩子的教育费用，我觉得要大方点，因为这是孩子的未来，为了他未来能多学点本领提高竞争力。

　　我觉得孩子的未来，和我们现在不一样，我们现在处于改革开放的初期，很多人没有什么真本领，真学识，但通过炒房，炒股，各种投机取巧等等，就发家致富了，但以后的社会，随着制度的完善，体制的完善，势必不可能创造出这么多一夜暴富的故事了，靠的还是自己的真能力。

　　主要是没有钱！用完了，怎么办？

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　　总不舍的花钱时间长了会形成一种自我束缚，旁人会认为你这人很抠门，老人家会认为你是一个会过日子的人。那么自身其实也是个纠结源想去改变却觉得挣钱不容易还是省着点花，而当看到别人挣钱还没自己多花钱却比自己大方的时候内心又很自卑。

　　改变从小我开始，衡量一个人扣不扣爱不爱不是从他肯为你花多少钱来体现的，而是他肯为你花他收入的多少才能真正看出他对你扣不扣或爱不爱，爱他就要肯为他花钱这句话太片面。

　　怎么从小我开始改变舍不得花钱这个根结呢？首先你要肯为身边的亲人花钱，先从父母开始百善孝为先花点钱天经地义吧也没什么好纠结的。迈步一小步就是成功一大步。希望你会拜托心结越来越好。

　　舍不得花钱该花的时候也得花，生活必需。舍不得花钱的人该花钱的时候花了，会痛苦吗？会的话大可不必，需调整自已的心态。不会的话该算是节俭吧。俭以养德，值得称赞。

　　我很欣赏那种能挣会花的人。所谓会花钱，小到能把自家钱安排合理，让生活井井有条，生活质量不断提高;大到事业有成，能为社会解忧尽自己所能。

　　钱啊该花就花吧，换取生活必须品，改善生活质量这些事情，是把钱花出去才能做到的。

　　总舍不得花钱怎么办。

　　谢邀请，我就是总舍不得花钱的人，人家总是说懂得花钱才懂的赚钱难道这真的是真理吗？我收入本来就少花的每一分钱都要精心细算，到底要怎么去用这些钱，如果大手花钱，那明后天用什么啊！

　　我是节约用钱了，但是我们家主人就是大出大用，只要有点钱就会每天买很多吃的水果之类的给孩子们吃，还有买肉类的也是大买，等钱花完了就不很少买了，我总是跟他说，你花钱能不能有个度，省着点用，不然没有又要跟谁借了。

　　所以刚刚说的那句话说懂的花钱才懂的赚钱这话我不认为真理，如果你花钱没钱分寸的话，你不管有再多的钱也是没用的，钱总是要花的不过呢？我们也要有个度，这样才是会过日子。不管你再有钱也要对钱尊重！这才是真理！！

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　　我就是舍不得花钱的人，我只舍不得给我身上花。

　　以前的我总觉得孩子的爸爸是经常在外的人，所以衣服，鞋子都买牌子的。孩子上初中了，穿的不能太差，会让人瞧不起。从来没想过自己怎样，衣服还能穿就不买新的，鞋子永远是一双黑皮鞋。

　　孩子们作业班，培训班，兴趣班，只要想学的都没问题；他爸爸应酬，投资的钱绝对支持。

　　亲戚朋友家中有难该接济的接济，婆婆，妈妈逢年过节该买衣服买衣服，该买东西买东西，从不抱怨。

　　我只对不起我自己。当孩子他爸说着嫌弃的话出轨时，当孩子说同学的妈妈漂亮，妈妈太老了时，我醍醐灌顶。结婚十九年，我把自己弄丢了。

　　今天我才知道这是多么悲哀的事，所以有了这篇文章，有了我的努力，有了我的放下，有了我站在阳光下的微笑。

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　　与我相反呢！我一出门不花点钱就浑身难受，进超市不买东西出门，我觉得都对不起门口那俩保安大哥！????

　　生活中要花钱的地方太多啦！早上睁开眼，摸手机，无线网、电费、水费、早餐费！出门上班，油费、车费，看到同事口红色喜欢！同事的风衣，时髦的裙子，有没有心动，我是急切地过去打听啦！想着自己穿上的样子（自带P图效果），心痒难耐啊！

　　一个人花还不够，还有一大家子的，老公的衬衣外套，娃的衣衫鞋子，为什么我刚一出来逛街，手里就提满东西，如果不是担心花呗额度 （不还多好啊??），我还能再逛一圈！

　　还有吃的东西，就算不买穿的，总得吃啊！肉啊菜啊！总有一样爱吃的吧！如果自己做饭，那要的东西就更多了！

　　家里有孩子，上学了吗？辅导班，兴趣班，各种学习资料，钱包不要你要控制就控制得住的！

　　我没每天为钱发愁，要花的太多啦！

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　　静以修身，俭以养德！舍不得花钱是很多人的优点，如果养成大手大脚的花钱就麻烦了。其实好多人都是舍不得花钱，然而每个月的钱都不够花，信用卡，花呗等欠了很多钱。可想而知，如果再不抑制点，那么得负债累累啊！所以坚持下去，一个月强制存款！